There's something I've been noticing for a while, and once you see it, it's hard to ignore. In most sexual scenes we see in media and porn, there's a clear pattern around men's pleasure. Women are the soundtrack. They moan, sigh, gasp, and express their pleasure. Men, on the other hand, are usually quiet. Maybe some heavy breathing. Perhaps a sound at the very end. But ongoing, natural expressions of pleasure? Rare. And I don't think that's accidental. This silence feels lear