Music is one of those things people often leave until the last minute. They'll think about the room, the lighting, maybe the candles or the sheets. Then, just before everything begins, someone opens Spotify and searches for "sexy playlist". I've always thought music deserves a little more attention than that. I've noticed that the right music can change the entire atmosphere. Not because it creates intimacy on its own, but because it helps us settle into it. Sometimes it help